What I want in a partner / close friend
April 10, 2008 by Anna Aniston
- Can be wrong
- Can be right but doesn’t have to be
- Knows when to stop arguing and just get things done
- Knows that this point is different to each of us
- Likes a good argument and knows that it doesn’t have to be serious
- Able to have a conversation
- Clever, not doesn’t have to be formally educated (but its ok if they are)
- Thinks for themselves
- Inquisitive and curious
- Takes care of their body but enjoys their body and isn’t a member of the body police or really uptight about body image
- Sexy, very sexy, but not meaning short skirts and sleaze
- Leaves room for me
- Cares for me
- Thinks of me as I think of them
- Loves me
- Lets me be me. Loves me because I am me, not because of what I could be, or what I can do for them or because of their ideal-Anna.
- Brave
- Allows change to happen
- Can be a partner in adventure, not just a focus of my time and energy
- Doesn’t play tit for tat or exploit my weaknesses to get my attention
- Gives massages, all the time like crazy
- Likes me to be in control
- Likes to be in control
- Realises that the above 2 aren’t mutually exclusive
- Someone who cares enough to reach out to me sometimes
- Someone who is kind and not cruel
have own ute with frangipani seat covers and not fall asleep by Bold and the beautiful every day
Yep, must have own ute, van, refrigerated 1 tonne truck or secure 3 tonne truck with pneumatic goods lift.
Or bicycle.
Must have own legs? Must have own wheelchair?
Must have at least 8 fingers?
Chivalrous. Equality means equal caring. It doesn’t mean just leaving me to look out for myself.